About the author...Phyl, born in Mississippi, spent the first eight years of her life in Memphis, Tennessee, before moving to Pompano Beach, Florida, with her mother at age eight. Growing up, and into dysfunction could have caused permanent despairity; however, she chose not to give up, although many times she came close. Today, she's proud to stand among the many survivors of dysfunction who have survived against all odds and hope to serve as an inspiration to those who may feel their life is hopeless and not recognize their strength and survival skills.